The Complete Guide to Selling and Buying at Once in El Paso

What are all the ways to sell and buy at the same time in El Paso?

Each way comes with a con. We must disclose to you: there is no perfect way to make this move. You're either sacrificing stress or money. It's a matter of what's most important to you. Is taking your time to find the perfect home most important? Is making the most amount of money the most important, or is saving the most amount of stress the most important to you? Below, you will be able to choose which one best fits your goals.

1. Sell first, move into a rental, then buy

Who it is for: someone who wants to take their time on both sides. Time to sell so they get the most money out of their home, and time to buy so they are not rushing the biggest decision they will make this decade. And they are willing to trade stress for that flexibility.

The pros: you sell without a clock and you buy without a clock. No double payment. No contingency weakening your offer.

The cons: you move twice. And the lease is the part people do not think through. Most landlords want you for a full year. You do not want a year, because what happens if you find your house four months in? What you actually want is month to month, and month to month costs more.

Does it work in El Paso? It works. Most people still do not pick it, and the reason is almost never the money. It is the moving.

2. Sell first, move in with family, then buy

Who it is for: the same person as path 1, but with somewhere to land.

The pros: everything path 1 gives you, plus more flexibility. There is no lease, so you leave whenever you are ready.

The cons: you are crowded. And the pressure of being in someone else's house is a lot heavier than people expect. We have watched it push buyers into an impulsive decision on a home they did not love, just to get out.

Does it work in El Paso? Yes, and we have done it. This is what Jesus and Bianca did.

3. Sell first, then rent your home back from the buyer

You sell the house, and then you rent it back from the person who bought it for an agreed period while you go find your next one. The term for it is a leaseback.

Who it is for: someone whose home is desirable enough that a buyer will agree to wait to move in. This only works when the buyer wants the house badly enough to do almost anything to get it.

The pros: this is the one path that kills the double move. You move once. No double mortgage payment. And you get some time to buy.

The cons: the clock is still there, it is just quieter. Eventually the leaseback runs out, and how long you get depends on what you negotiated. The bigger trade is the one nobody mentions: if you are getting a leaseback, you are probably not selling at top dollar. It is a concession, and the buyer prices it in.

Does it work in El Paso? Only with the right house. If buyers are not competing for your home, you are not getting this.

4. Buy first with an offer contingent on your home selling

You make an offer on your next house, and the offer says you only have to buy it if your current home sells. The term is a sale contingency.

The pros: you will never end up with two mortgage payments. You get to take your time on your purchase.

The cons: this is the catch, and it is a big one. The kind of seller who accepts an offer contingent on your home selling is usually a seller who has to. And generally speaking, the home that a desperate seller is sitting on is not the home you were dreaming about. You are trading house quality for safety.

Does it work in El Paso? It works, but it takes longer to find someone who will take it, and your options are narrower than you think.

5. Buy first with no contingency and carry both payments

Who it is for: somebody with money to spend.

The pros: your offer competes with everyone else's, because there are no strings on it. You move once. You skip almost all of the stress.

The cons: the money, obviously. But there is a second one people miss. It is not just whether you can afford both payments. It is whether the lender will approve you while you are carrying both. That extra debt counts against you, and it is enough to get people denied who assumed their savings made them safe. Having the cash and qualifying for the loan are two different tests.

6. Borrow against your current home for the down payment

Your down payment is sitting inside your current house. There are a few tools that get it out before you sell: a line of credit against your equity (a HELOC), a bridge loan, a hard money loan, or a bank statement loan.

The pros: you buy without a sale contingency, so your offer actually competes. You move once.

The cons: you are spending your equity on interest and closing costs, and most homeowners hate that trade the second they see it in dollars. It also raises your debt to income, which can be the exact thing that kills the purchase you were borrowing to make possible. A HELOC has to be set up before your home is listed, because most lenders will not open one on a house that is already on the market. And with hard money or a bank statement loan, the interest rate is what stops people cold.

Does it work in El Paso? There are plenty of hard money and bank statement lenders here. HELOC lenders are harder to come by. So the option is real. It is just rarely the one worth taking, and the interest rate is almost always why. This is the least popular option of the 11 to choose from and not something we would ever recommend.

7. Sell first, then line up both closings within 24 hours

This is the one most of our clients use. Put the home up for sale. Wait for a buyer. Go under contract, and negotiate a longer closing date than usual. Then go find your next home and set both closings within a day of each other. Funding timing matters enormously here, so read when you get your money after selling.

The pros: no double mortgage payment. You do not move twice. You are never homeless. You sell and buy in one continuous motion.

The cons: the two deals are now tied together. If one thing slips on either side, you are in default of a contract. If you did add a contingency to protect yourself, it is still stressful, because a delay on one side blows up your entire moving timeline. There is no real certainty on either end until both close.

Does it work in El Paso? This is the most common path here, and it is the one we run most often.

8. Buy a move-in ready new construction home

Same mechanics as path 7, with one addition: the builder generally will not hold a move-in ready home for you unless your current home is already under contract.

The pros: the same as path 7, plus you get a brand new house instead of someone else's.

The cons: the same as path 7, plus the builder's timeline is not yours. If your sale slips, the home you were holding can go to someone else.

Does it work in El Paso? Yes, and it is common on the East Side, where most of the new construction in this city is going up.

9. Build from the ground up and time your sale to the build

The pros: you are not racing anyone. Building takes months, which means you can time your sale instead of reacting to it. You skip the double payment risk and you skip the panic, and you get the house you actually picked.

The cons: the home you want may already be built and sitting on the market right now, and you spent eight months waiting for nothing. And there is a timing trap: if you list your home too early in the build, it sells fast and now you are the one with nowhere to go and a house that is not finished.

Does it work in El Paso? Yes, and builders here are constantly starting new phases. The discipline is in when you list, not whether you build. We list about three months before the new home is ready, and the full reasoning — including what happens if your buyer walks — is in what happens if your buyer backs out.

10. Keep your current home as a rental and buy the next one

The pros: you keep an asset that appreciates instead of handing it to somebody else. El Paso has steady rental demand, so filling it is usually not the hard part.

The cons: your down payment stays trapped inside the house you kept, so the payment on your new home is higher than it had to be. The rent is also less than you think it is going to be, almost every time. And both mortgages count against you when you go to qualify.

Does it work in El Paso? It works. But we want to be straight about something. We work with people who want a home, not a portfolio. If you are asking this question because you want a rental, this is a real path and you should talk to someone who does that work. If you are asking because you are trying to solve a timing problem, this is usually the most expensive way to solve it.

The pros: you keep your interest rate. You keep your monthly payment. You do not coordinate two transactions, you do not move, and you do not spend a single night worrying about any of the ten paths above.

The cons: there is one, and it is not financial. You are going to know. In the back of your head, every day, you are going to know that what you wanted was a different house.

Which one do most El Pasoans pick?

Path 7. Sell first, go under contract with a buyer, then find the next house and line the closings up.

The reason is simple. The biggest uncertainty in the whole thing is not finding a house to buy. It is finding a buyer for yours at the price you need in order to make the next purchase possible. Once that is answered, most of the stress is gone, because everything after it is a decision instead of a hope.

Everything else requires moving, money, or betting that your home sells. And unless your house is a needle in a haystack, that last one is a real worry.

Option 8 is the other one. It is a combination of allowing them to take their time to pick the right home and, as long as their realtor advised them properly on worst case scenario for selling, they will have more than enough time to sell and not be surprised if they make less. This one is actually THE BEST if and only if you want a new construction, like Jesus and Bianca.

What do we do before your home ever goes up for sale?

The goal is to find out if selling and purchasing another home is right for you or if it makes more sense to stay in your current home.

1. We explain the worst-case and best-case scenario

We explain to you the worst-case scenario and the best-case scenario of the price your home will sell for, how much money you will make in your pocket after paying all fees (every line that comes out of your proceeds), and how long it will take. After we lay out the worst-case and best-case scenarios, we explain how we came to that conclusion and how that will affect you on the buying side as far as lowering your new mortgage payment for the home you are purchasing.

2. We turn that number into a monthly payment

If you are planning to use that profit as the down payment on your next home, we show you exactly how that down payment changes the monthly payment at the price you are looking at. If the payment lines up with what you want, we know this is possible. If it is way over, you have two options: bring the purchase price down until the payment fits, or stay where you are and renovate. Both are real answers, and we will tell you which one we think it is.

3. We get you pre-approved

Before anything else. We have watched people put their home on the market, find a buyer, and only then find out the lender was never going to approve them. That is their home and their time gone for nothing. We check first.

4. We go look at homes, just window shopping

Nothing to sign, nobody pressuring you. Two reasons for it. One, to confirm that what you are picturing actually exists at the payment you want. Two, so we learn what you actually like, which is never quite what people say they like. Then when it is time to go find it for real, we are not starting from zero.

What happens once your home goes on the market?

5. Your home is up for sale within 7 days

We coach you on exactly what to do before it goes live. We coach you on:

• what repairs to make
• how to move your furniture around
• what to empty out of the home
• what improvements you could make to add value to the house before having it up for sale

Once it is live, you hear from us multiple times a week. You should never have to call us to find out what is happening with your own house.

6. We tell you when it is safe to buy

Not before. Once your sale is solid, we go put your next home under contract, and from there we are running both deals at the same time: repair negotiations on both sides, the appraisal, and everything it takes to get both files clear to close. You close on the home you are selling one day, and the home you are buying the next. The title company from your sale wires your money straight into your purchase. Here is what comes due at closing on the buying side.

7. We negotiate you time to move

Most of the time we get your buyer to give you two days in the home after closing, and sometimes up to seven. So you are not moving out and moving in on the same afternoon with a truck idling in the driveway.

By the time your home hits the market, you already know three things: what it should sell for, what you can buy after it sells, and what that home looks like in real life. You are not hoping. You have seen it.

Learn more about how we run the first meeting.

Why do most El Paso homeowners wait years to move up?

Because they are afraid of getting stuck, and nobody has ever walked them through what actually happens. It is almost always the same five fears.

Anyways. Here is what we want you to know about all five: none of them are irrational. They are all real outcomes, and we have watched every one of them happen to people who did not plan the order of their sale and their purchase. Going into this without a plan is like booking a connecting flight with nine minutes between gates, then acting surprised you are sleeping in the airport.

The fix is not confidence. The fix is the eleven paths above, and knowing which one is yours before you pick it.

You have a couple options here, and every one of them is on this page. It really boils down to what you are willing to trade: money, time, or stress. Which one do you want to give up?

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This page explains how these transactions generally work in El Paso. It is not lending, tax, or legal advice. Your lender, your CPA, and your attorney give you the answers that apply to you. See the market data and rules used here.